Help with big pulls in newer content

[tinythinker]

If you can put together a brief video example of what your pulls look like, that might help us better identify issues you may currently be having.

Also, I just noticed/remembered that you are on Faerie with me. Always happy to play with you sometime.

Thanks. Not sure I can do videos. If you want a first-hand observation sure

Honestly all of the advice has been really helpful... for level 50/60 dungeons. I know they are synched for me, super-easy kiddy mode, etc, etc., but, I can pull off what other people do in 4.x with about the same level of effort/closeness of calls and see my mistakes in real time and learn. I might still blow it (rarely) but generally I feel good about my chances and my ability to recover if something does go wrong. In 4.x there's just too much damage too fast to do more than heal spam unless I want a 50-60% chance (or higher in some runs) of wipes on pulls. I don't want to keep wiping parties in DF or having to ask for small pulls and still struggle. It's not fair to other players.

I like the story, art, music, and themes of FFXIV. The players mostly seem nice/friendly. But I'm slowly starting to dislike running dungeons/healing :/