Quote Originally Posted by kikix12 View Post
I'd be more interested in the system letting ME "kick out" myself (not from party) if I get disconnected. As it is, the system takes a pointless amount of time to log me out, so that I can go back in.

Some of these "convenient" disconnections are possibly such extended log-out processes, too. I couldn't log in for well over five minutes once, before I just quit trying. The servers for FFXIV suck, and them apparently being perpetually attacked doesn't help.
Agreed. It's really annoying when I get DC'd in the middle of the dungeon, try to log back in, and get the "your character is still logged in please wait a few minutes" message. I think 5 minutes before having the server boot the player from the party (or letting the party kick the player) is pretty fair.