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I have done nothing to upset you and I'm hoping that means you read this post instead of skimming it and continuing to argue a straw man.
Objectively speaking it is not your business what someone else does with their character. You can't even argue from an immersion perspective because outfits like the chocobo and pig exist.
If you have been met with people being rude to you you need to ask yourself why. At it's core this thread is about wanting more customization. The reason the focus is on butts is because it's an area where not only is there no existing customization but also an area a lot of people think SE designed poorly. Most other aspects of character creation (across all races at least) have some dimension and variation. Do you like a particular skintone? Got it. How about height? Cool, from Lala to Roe you have options. How about overall frame? You can be muscular like Roe or Highlander or dainty as a female AuRa. You know what has basically no variation whatsoever?
Everyone has a flat butt.
You two are so stuck on this being sexual or demeaning it honestly baffles me. It is a particularly lacking area of character customization, that in and of it's self should be enough for you to agree it needs an update. As someone who thinks this is perfectly valid are you going to call me "pathetic" to my face for wanting my character to not have a flat butt and that desire stemming from my own body issues? Go ahead, I even promise not to report you, I just want to see if you have the gaul to be that rude to someone you can't dismiss as being a "pervert".
Go back to your bfs first post in this thread... then you pop in to argue the same points as he does... this whole thing is about personal aesthetics and people are focusing on one particular attribute they feel is lacking... nobody but you guys made this into a sexulization issue... as for body image issues go, when the thin body small booty is considered the "norm" it can have a negative impact on how a woman sees her own body.... nobody is saying everyone needs a big butt... we just want more realistic representation of backsidesits just people's rude tumblry attitudes (like gtfo if you dont agree with what I have to say) that's caused the most issues for me here. I wasnt rude to anyone but people were rude to me for no other reason than me having a different opinion.
I know no one will probably care what I have to say but I'm just trying to make people to maybe think before they say something?


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You keep saying you're "done" but then keep coming back to the same straw man.This shows that no one is reading my posts, because I've never said once that there's anything wrong with wanting different body shapes? its just the demeaning things that people who also said that they had body issues were saying about small butts or whatever but that's ok right? When it came to sexualising its again the the fault of the OP for using booty as the focus of the thread.
There is no reason whatsoever for anyone to be rude to me, because I expressed a different opinion? Again tumblr logic. You want to see me as the bad guy when I haven't even done anything to justify it? I said everything in a nice way and again for the millionth time have said that its the way that this thread was started making it seem like butts were the focus. If OP has just said they want more body or character customisation the whole thing would have come across differently.
I never called anyone pathetic. I can get this thing is a video game but you yourself are saying the small butts make you insecure but this is just a video game right? Why does it bother you if it doesn't matter? Again its only a video game when convenient.
I'll repeat this for the last time because I'm done with this thread, I support body/character customisation completely but its how people say negative things about bodies, like it means nothing, that some people seem to forget, that people have irl. I was just trying to make people realise the words or things they say might hurt people but like humans give a damn. Shoulda known better. Hope you all have a nice day and just know you made a person with huge anxiety issues feel like shit for trying to stick up for people.
On the off chance you're not "done" yet again...
I never said it was cool for people to be rude to you or your boyfriend. What I said was that if you find people being rude to you you need to stop and ask why it's happening. For me personally I have had people dmsay rude things to me but if it's a point that I believe in strongly I will stick to my guns and deal with it. What I can't believe is that you are so bothered by this illusion that the people in this thread are "demeaning" people with small butts irl because they want the *option* to have a larger butt in game.
Everyone has different tastes and there is nothing wrong with saying you find a particular feature unattractive. I don't find very skinny guys attractive. I don't find girls with a lot of spray tan attractive. If you are a skinny guy or a spray tanned girl this should not hurt your feelings. There are people who find those things attractive out there and I respect their choices as well.
Saying something doesn't look good is always by default in your own opi ion.
In terms of the end of your post where you try to have a pity party about your anxiety I only have one thing to say - if this gives you anxiety I am genuinely worried for you when it comes to real life. Seek help. I am not making a joke or being hurtful, if talking about the butts of video game characters literally makes you feel anxious I think you need to evaluate some things about your priorities. If you are using anxiety as a tool to try to garner pity then with all due respect go away and don't come back, it isn't something to joke about or use as a prop.
On topic: Yessss, so glad people are embracing the glamor idea! Thanks guys! Ill post a screenshot tomorrow if I can figure out how from PS4.
This took a very dark turn... How did a thread about adding customization sliders turn into a discussion about sexism and body shaming?!
Last edited by Black-Crowe; 10-09-2017 at 10:16 AM.
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