I really, really, REALLY, didn't want to get involved in this but: intentions such as dark humor, sarcasm, and assorted "tones" are very hard to convey through text. This goes for you and Cilia, who's also fond of using sarcasm in their posts, making them come across as insulting where no insult was (I hope) intended. Your second post on this discussion, intentionally or not, came across as very insulting, thus the whole diatribe; add a "(joking)" or "/sarcasm" or another marker, otherwise you're giving free reign (this goes for everyone) for anyone to misread your intentions.