Getting hate for glamour

[Paladinleeds]

Ok fine guys just report me so i get banned from forums for posting this stupid thread and for posting stupid post everywhere.

Also report me in-game too so i get banned from FFXIV completely and never able play it again.

If there is any mods out there please close this thread asap and ban me for posting this stupiud and pointless thread.

Take it from someone who has tried it. It won't work. I've lost track of the amount of times I've tried reporting myself to the GMs. Unless there's been a rule breach, which there hasn't (sure, the thread may be a bit ridiculous, but it doesn't break any rules), you're not getting banned. Simple.

Also, let me quote my previous post, since I think you need to see it.

Funnily enough, I've tried that strat myself. I'm still here (even after the storm I unleashed that was the extreme undercutting thread). Your posts aren't banworthy. You won't get banned for it no matter how many reports you send. In all honesty I'm seeing traits of perfectionism in you, like if anything isn't right, you should be banned. Same problems I'm having and am currently receiving therapy for. Hang in there, you can get through this. Also, you're on Cerberus, which is EU datacentre, so if you need me for anything, let me know, I'm willing to come and lend a hand.

As someone who can see what's going on in your mind because it's very similar thoughts to what I have, I am concerned. I don't believe you should be banned, but I do believe some therapy may be in order. It seems to be ingrained into you at a level similar to mine. As a concerned individual trying to talk to you like a friend here, please look into Cognitive Behavioural Therapy. As I am learning, these thoughts aren't healthy. This link will showcase the different unhelpful thinking styles you seem to display at least some of. It's OK, you will get through this.

EDIT: Because I must surely be hitting my post limit soon, gonna edit this in...

I just have one question.

"Why do you want to get banned?"

It is quite clear this is something you are looking for... why?

Allow me to answer this. If it's anything like what I go through (and her posts seem to signify that it is), it's a feeling of that a mistake is the equivalent of breaking the law and taking a very black and white approach to these things. It's either right or wrong. She also seems to be catastrophising the issues, and not looking at the positives she brings. Tied to low self-esteem and perfectionism.

EDIT2: the PDF linked in my quote of myself lists the "black and white thinking" as "All or nothing thinking", but they mean the same thing. She seems to be using all the unhelpful thinking styles listed in the PDF. Something which I also do.

If you're around in a few hours and want to chat, feel free to make a throwaway character on my server and ping me a message.

I also extend this offer. We can also use it to get groups together if you wanna do anything with me around, since our mains are on the same datacentre, so cross-realm PF is a thing that can be used effectively.

I'm genuinely worried by your obvious unhappiness.

Agreed. I'm also genuinely worried, and despite my communication issues I have, I am willing to lend an ear. I know what it's like. I've faced it myself (and still do face it). It's not nice at all. Having someone who's been through it themselves and can truly understand may be beneficial. She's not alone. A part of me wants to make a throwaway character on Cerberus and message her asking if everything is OK and what can I do to help.

EDIT3: I've done it, made a throwaway character on Cerb with the same name as this one. I won't use it yet, but if things continue to get worse, I'll step in and use it.

[Jib]

I just have one question.

"Why do you want to get banned?"

It is quite clear this is something you are looking for... why?

[Mholito]

If you think this my post is nothing but "bait" then report me so i get banned from forums.

Haven't you been saying for the past week that you stopped playing the game? Have you considered getting some help for that victim complex of yours?

[Serilda]

If there is any mods out there please close this thread asap and ban me for posting this stupiud and pointless thread.

No, look, this isn't constructive and it cannot be good for your emotional health. If you read your past threads it's a litany of examples of you posting things that are either really insecure (e.g. this thread) or probably more antagonistic than you intended (the rudeness in the BR/RU thread - best to ignore that one if you don't understand it). But none of these things deserve a banning. None of these things make you less worthy of enjoying Eorzea than anyone else on this forum. If glamour is something worthy of hate, I'm probably one of the most hated people on this entire forum for my persistent demands for more glamour for my male character. If I felt as anxious and upset about every lunatic who insults me about it as you're feeling whenever you post, I'd never be able to cope. It's ok to feel upset. It's ok to talk. Nobody here replying to you is saying anything especially cruel, when not viewed through a lens of insecurity and worry. Your character is pretty and you've obviously put a lot of time into choosing her look and clothing; anyone who picks on you for that simply isn't worthy of your time.

If you're around in a few hours and want to chat, feel free to make a throwaway character on my server and ping me a message. I'm genuinely worried by your obvious unhappiness.

[Galgarion]

I got hate for using this glamour.

Ehhh, I do hate that glamour, but I wouldn't give you crap over it. Sounds like you just met some angry people.

[Clethoria]

Ok so moment ago i tried do Omega v.1 normal for ilvl 320 gear and i started getting hate for my character glamour.

If this is the case then SE should remove glamour system and all glamour stuff ASAP so i don't get hate just because of my character glamour that i like using on my character.

Also everyone if you think this is a stupid thread just report me so i get banned for posting this crap and that i can't never post anything again in forums.

???

Wait are you actually for real? Delete an entire system that's literally established multiple times in the lore/MSQ because "No one likes my bikini, so nobody can wear a bikini waaaah!"

Not even an entire gallery of "wtf" images can cover this one.

[SpiritTamer]

Ok fine guys just report me so i get banned from forums for posting this stupid thread and for posting stupid post everywhere.

Also report me in-game too so i get banned from FFXIV completely and never able play it again.

If there is any mods out there please close this thread asap and ban me for posting this stupiud and pointless thread.

You did nothing wrong to get banned for. I know this feeling you're having, though. Maybe just take a break from the game and come back later.

[Ageofwar]

I got hate for using this glamour.

hmm I swear I have gone into dungoens looking like this:-

and no one batten an eye lid

[micropanther7]

Ok so moment ago i tried do Omega v.1 normal for ilvl 320 gear and i started getting hate for my character glamour.

If this is the case then SE should remove glamour system and all glamour stuff ASAP so i don't get hate just because of my character glamour that i like using on my character.

Also everyone if you think this is a stupid thread just report me so i get banned for posting this crap and that i can't never post anything again in forums.

Tell them to take either a) take a long walk off a short plank, b) get that stick out of their rear end, or c) just tell them you fancied a swim In otherwords, blacklist and completely ignore them... and do yourself a huge favour, focus on PaladinLeeds post and the link he posted, I'd also strongly recommend transferring and joining their guild, you need to be with people who understand you and where you feel safe... to the people who get the OP, I could kiss you I really could (don't worry I won't lol)

[Ayer2015]

This screams of being a troll post.