Getting hate for glamour

[SpiritMuse]

Seems like a pretty standard bikini glamour to me. Not really anything to harass anyone over. Honestly if anyone deserves to be banned it's those guys harassing you. They deserve to be reported, at least.

[ErryK]

Ok so moment ago i tried do Omega v.1 normal for ilvl 320 gear and i started getting hate for my character glamour.

If this is the case then SE should remove glamour system and all glamour stuff ASAP so i don't get hate just because of my character glamour that i like using on my character.

Also everyone if you think this is a stupid thread just report me so i get banned for posting this crap and that i can't never post anything again in forums.

From one extreme to another and to a third... smells like bait.

Who cares, maybe they are big roes how are jealous of your figure.

Not even the ugliest Roegadyn would be jealous of that figure.

[Chiramu]

If you think this my post is nothing but "bait" then report me so i get banned from forums.

I'm starting to think they were not hating on you for your Glamour :/.

[Paladinleeds]

If you think this my post is nothing but "bait" then report me so i get banned from forums.

Funnily enough, I've tried that strat myself. I'm still here (even after the storm I unleashed that was the extreme undercutting thread). Your posts aren't banworthy. You won't get banned for it no matter how many reports you send. In all honesty I'm seeing traits of perfectionism in you, like if anything isn't right, you should be banned. Same problems I'm having and am currently receiving therapy for. Hang in there, you can get through this. Also, you're on Cerberus, which is EU datacentre, so if you need me for anything, let me know, I'm willing to come and lend a hand.

As someone who can see what's going on in your mind because it's very similar thoughts to what I have, I am concerned. I don't believe you should be banned, but I do believe some therapy may be in order. It seems to be ingrained into you at a level similar to mine. As a concerned individual trying to talk to you like a friend here, please look into Cognitive Behavioural Therapy. As I am learning, these thoughts aren't healthy. This link will showcase the different unhelpful thinking styles you seem to display at least some of. It's OK, you will get through this.

[ErryK]

If you think this my post is nothing but "bait" then report me so i get banned from forums.

It's like being banned.

[Ilyrian]

Gotta grow a thicker skin *ahem* if you want to go round showing that much of it

[Serilda]

Probably just a bunch of edgelords trying to look cool by insulting a pretty lady. Pay them no heed.

But seriously, you need to do something about your lack of confidence if possible. Nasty people tend to pick on those who they know have low self esteem already; most of us would laugh off a glamour insult or redirect it to the person being spiteful, but your constant requests for punishment imply you're struggling. Please don't be afraid of us

[Jybril]

If you think this my post is nothing but "bait" then report me so i get banned from forums.

You've been wanting to get banned after your RU/BR posts and on the post you called it stupid.
So judging from that post, you must've said something to the people in game and also tell then you ban you or something.
something just doesn't feel right with all of this honestly.

[Serilda]

You've been wanting to get banned after your RU/BR posts and on the post you called it stupid.
So judging from that post, you must've said something to the people in game and also tell then you ban you or something.
something just doesn't feel right with all of this honestly.

It's a long term thing (ISTR telling her off about a similarly silly post about Europeans once or something and it was the same deal). It's not malicious at all, but there are definitely some issues to deal with

I think a lot of us struggle with social interaction and an MMORPG kind of brings all of that out into the open.

[Freyt]

This is an MMO. It's a social game. People are going to disagree with you from time to time, they may criticize particular things about you, such as play style, personality, or even tastes.

If you have problems with individuals, report them. The worst thing you can do is get on a forum and complain about "people" to other people. We can't do anything to improve your situation, which seems to be the reason that you're here, so you should seek help elsewhere.

As for consoling if you need it then you should ask for it properly. Rather than casting blame at nameless faces, you should take a more constructive approach to it. Just to be clear, making a topic about it in general discussion is more intrusive rather than constructive. There was a topic about the negative experiences of duty finder for people to vent in, I would suggest using that for situations like these.