A tank's concern

[KalinOrthos]

It's not your fault. healers trying to be helpful and still haven't properly adjusted. If you see them doing that and wipe. Please give them a reminder, "guys while I do appreciate the dps, please keep me alive. " If they take it as an offense vote kick them.

Which is what I did to the first guy. Asked him to keep me up, he told me to stop being bad and stop complaining. Which felt weird because I've gotten nothing but praise from my previous groups about how I didn't seem to take any damage at all. My hang up is, because it was three in a row, if it was something I was doing wrong, and it's comforting to know I seem to be okay.

[ManuelBravo]

... it was three in a row, if it was something I was doing wrong, and it's comforting to know I seem to be okay.

Your fine, if you get trolls like that their a dime a dozen. If I were you I would give them a fair warning. 3 wipes your out. If DPS on your side otherwise refuse to tank and let them kick you to avoid penalty. They need tanks more than healers right now anyways. When that happens to me I let them know ahead of time. after second death. "guys this is insane I shouldn't be going down. Healers thx for helping dps however healing should be your priority. If I go down a third time and it's not a boss fight I will vote kick or refuse to tank until you leave." It may be harsh but they are ruining the run and I rather not deal with it. Usually DPS will be on your side. Just remember your job is to keep enmity. If they see you heal here and there they can't blame you. Also make sure to blacklist them so you don't party with them in the future.

[KalinOrthos]

When that happens to me I let them know ahead of time. after second death. "guys this is insane I shouldn't be going down. Healers thx for helping dps however healing should be your priority. If I go down a third time and it's not a boss fight I will vote kick or refuse to tank until you leave." It may be harsh but they are ruining the run and I rather not deal with it. Usually DPS will be on your side. Just remember your job is to keep enmity. If they see you heal here and there they can't blame you. Also make sure to blacklist them so you don't party with them in the future.

I might have to start doing that if it continues. Maybe not even when we go down, but when I have to start spamming Clemency on myself and the DPS.