Nope. Most people are using this as an actual dating service. If people really were only looking for a friend to play the game with, there would be no gender restrictions (not even preferences, it's basically "has to be X" because obviously sexual preference is being taken in account here, which wouldn't be the case if it were a harmless friend search), weirdo stalkers, people trying to hide their marriages, etc. A lot of responses are usually looking for a means to connect with personally, up to and including meeting in person and engaging in actual relationships.
There also seems to be an abundance of people searching for same gender partners as well. If it were really just a thread to innocently find friends, you would not see all this behavior happening. So warning others of scammers and people who are already married in person is a legitimate concern for most who are searching here because this is not really an innocent "I want a friend to frolic with" thread.
To add to this, most people never like if someone is already in a relationship IRL. Why would that be?Nope. Most people are using this as an actual dating service. If people really were only looking for a friend to play the game with, there would be no gender restrictions (not even preferences, it's basically "has to be X" because obviously sexual preference is being taken in account here, which wouldn't be the case if it were a harmless friend search), weirdo stalkers, people trying to hide their marriages, etc. A lot of responses are usually looking for a means to connect with personally, up to and including meeting in person and engaging in actual relationships.![]()
Or maybe it's natturaly to look for someone of the other gender for a relationship( private or friendly depend of each) when we already have friends in our FC .
Sometime i like to be alone of my FC and in this case having someone out of it to share those moment is interesting and sweet
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AwwwCome to Hyperion! XD
Actually im hopefully buying a plot in shirogane. I've a bit over 20m gil tucked away. Not sure how much they will cost, so I'm adding to this all the time.
And plus..... I'm a kitty!
Server: Excalibur
Willing to transfer: No
Personal Interests: Anima/K Drama/Futebol/Video Games
Play schedule: Anytime mostly but I do work LOL
What kind of gamer are you: casual to Hardcore
Character Gender: Male (Irl Male as well)
Character Race: Miqote , sometime i'll switch between Au Ra and Miqote but mostly Miqote.
Preferred Race: Female Miqo'te/Au Ra
Main class?: SAMURAI!!!!
Dislikes: People who lie, I really do not like dishonest people.
Goals for ingame: I have saved up enough for a house in Shirogane and right now I am just doing Omega and lvling other jobs =D
Goals for the marriage union: Someone to get to know and play an awesome game together, right now just friends and if we click we can see where it goes.
Discord Wolfleader#8243
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As many folks on here have mentioned seeking friends or nothing IRL I am inclined to disagree. To each their own.Nope. Most people are using this as an actual dating service. If people really were only looking for a friend to play the game with, there would be no gender restrictions (not even preferences, it's basically "has to be X" because obviously sexual preference is being taken in account here, which wouldn't be the case if it were a harmless friend search), weirdo stalkers, people trying to hide their marriages, etc. A lot of responses are usually looking for a means to connect with personally, up to and including meeting in person and engaging in actual relationships...
Except your husband seeks only a female, in-game and real-world.
And read his description, he said it himself, it matters.
The fact you haven't ever posted a profile of your character in this thread and picked someone only seeking your in-real-life gender... for just friends... with a married man...
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