You are right it is the expectation and it isnt just MY problem as you can see other people get it too, but I wish I had never mentioned my personal experience because it tends to get made the entire problem that only I have and no one else . But these were just examples of what happens when you dont get chance to learn this optimal level of play and you are nervous about doing it and its interpreted as refusing, like its so easy everyone can do it. Even when learning a fight. Im not a proffessional footballer and those places are extremely hard to get. Yes you can improve but if no one has a learner then you cant progress. Its hard to do in new content so should be disabled. I am not the only person that finds it hard even hardcore groups say learn fight first. I dont have such a narrow mind that IIm not seeing the whole picture of the situation. This is like not having a pitch to play on tbh it creates exclusion from content . I can heal stuff though same as a guy can have fun playing with his friends and still win a football game. Cos he can still score goals. Doesnt matter if he cant be a goal keeper and score at the same time. Actually goal keeping is a very good analogy as it is essentia for him to be there but doesnt have to do everything the rest of the team is doing he has to watch the ball though and prevent a goal Its doubt full If his team moans at him for standing there for 10 seconds though without trying to score a goal. Would you say goal keepers are lazy?