As a healer, is it my job to DPS? A new perspective.

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Its so terribly toxic towards anyone having a different opinion, or a different view, Or even to suggest enjoying yourself. Wow thats not allowed weve all got to play how some dictate . Well I go to work and if play is like it as well ,shoot me now please.

Having standards is not bullying, you have no middle ground. You just think you can impose your way of thinking onto entire party and they are not allowed to do anything or say anything about it without them being considered bullies? How ironic.

Furthermore, like almost all things in life if you want something from a person or persons then you need to negotiate in some form with them. Negotiations are usually won with charisma and compromising attitude. In the end you need to promise what they want if they are going to even begin considering your proposition. What they want sometimes maybe to simply clear, so you need to find a way to make that work. You cannot force your way on most people, if you do not meet their standards than you better be sure they personally like you or else your negotiation will fail.Toxic people are more often than not a result of failed negotiations.