What is up with this toxic community

[Shougun]

always try to give your best, even if the other groupmembers suck.

Of course, agreed to that but I think you took "keep up" as in alive or maybe not taking the key point I was replying to as you admit it's not true in the reply later on (after saying sure you can). That 100% of all enmity mishaps is always 100% of the tank's fault, this is a bad outlook and is not true but it is true tank's have a lot of tools to keep it mostly in their power. Again they were vehement on 100% tank's fault- if you have to adjust for bad players or terrible choices other players have made then you've already failed (according to them). If the WHM takes hate in your train it's not your fault therefore automatically 100% of 100% statement isn't true, this is a group effort game - I merely was trying to reply that such an outlook is not conducive to a friendly environment and is false anyways. So sure you can keep 100% enmity at all times when WHM takes hate on your train is actually sure you can't :P.

Teaching others that 100% of all deaths is the healer's fault would be hilariously wrong for example. I just didn't like their absolute nature (most absolutes are wrong) and anyone learning to be better would learn to be worse by following that (unless they're a tank but they'd also learn to take blame for things that weren't their fault so still not optimal).