Got kicked from The Aetherochemical Research Facility by mentor

[Rufalus]

Those people need a lot more patience. Hurts the community to be like that. I would have let you play at your pace, and explain things if there are wipes. I would only kick a person if they are using harassment or cheating or not playing due to offline/afk; the options it gives you to kick a player basically.

[Khel]

And people wonder why tanks are scarce in DF.

[Watachy]

So hum don't wanna be rude but you seems to be the kind of person i don't like much in DF.

Ok you're new to something, i can understand you wanna do it slowly and safely to achieve the run.
But why wouldn't you try what people are telling you to do ? Just give it a try, ain't working ? Go back slow and small pulls, no problem.

If im healing those dungeons and my tank ain't pull much i would, politely, ask him to do so.
Why ? Because im confident enough in my abilities to keep the party alive and that will just faster the run for everyone, you included.

TLDR: You ran into dumb people but you should also try to do what people are telling you to do, especially if you're tanking and your healer says that you can pull more adds.

[Kragon]

I'm sorry you had such a bad experience - especially in a storydungeon.
There are several problems here - first of all, people are rude bastards. Second: SE was so super clever to make this dungeon one of the fastest ways to get tomes, that are needed in ungodly amounts for progression later. And third: being a mentor mostly means nothing...

So again, I'm sorry you had to go through this! Dont let it get to you - and if you want to: Find me on Odin, seeing you're on my server and ask for help anytime you want!
I'd like to prove to you that mentors can also be nice people and actualy trying to be helpful! So feel free to add me as a friend if you want to! Always nice seeing a fellow FemRoe too!

Thank you for the support Vidu. Next time I am online I will send you a friend request.

[Khemorex]

oh im sorry u have encountered such "mentors"

i would report them so they can be permanently removed from the mentor program.

[bswpayton]

So hum don't wanna be rude but you seems to be the kind of person i don't like much in DF.

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well also as a tank holding argo is key so for instance espesscialy in arf of they pull big and miss a few adds then , its not like the healer can tank it so it can actually lead to a wipe as much as a hate three add pulls if Im dpsing which is rare I hate wiping more.

[Watachy]

well also as a tank holding argo is key so for instance espesscialy in arf of they pull big and miss a few adds then , its not like the healer can tank it so it can actually lead to a wipe as much as a hate three add pulls if Im dpsing which is rare I hate wiping more.

Spamming domination/shadows is a big deal ?

[Kragon]

It's not a crime to be new - There are unfortunately players that feel they're entitled for "fast" pulls and "mentors" who wear the status as a symbol and don't do anything meaningful with their crown.

Don't get discouraged however. FFXIV has some of the friendliest people you'll ever meet in an MMO. Unfortunately, the community can also be fairly bipolar as it also has some of the most unsavory players I've ever met in an MMO before too, sadly :/

Keep going forward!

Thank you for the support. I never got kicked before in dungeon or trials. This was the first time I got kicked so it was a bit surprising and depressing at the same time.

[Miluiel]

;w; I'm sorry that you experienced something like this.
I never got kicked out of a dungeon before (at least I can't remember) but it isn't helpful when you're doing things the first time. I am really nervous and couldn't do dungeons alone so I was glad I could ask guild members to queue up with me. After that I could queue alone since I knew what I was doing.
Also, that this dungeon is used for tome farming isn't the best either, bc people in the party can be pushy and don't really care if someone is new.

I wish we could play together, I would help out!

[Madepossible]

OP: You had a dragoon as mentor, I mean, not like I am gonna judge but they were the floor tanks in 2.x. :3
Also I think you should report that trash ''mentor'', because they have an agreement when taking the ''novice'' thing and have to be a rolemodel to new players. If a mentor does not know her role, then don't join the Novice network and gtfo. /endrant