Had to cancel ceremony of eternal bond... Did I lose $20?

[Magic-Mal]

:I Because it's a fun event to celebrate with your loved one and friends.

Part of the ceremony includes those same items...

Putting the rings on your fingers, getting bonded for real. Walking off with your partner on the chocobo.

It wouldn't make sense to have all the marriage stuff, if you're not married.

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At most SE can give a refund but I believe somewhere it says asking for a refund can cause a ban? Or something..

Asking for full service if someone bails would be terrible. Because it would be horribly abused. People would start the quest and "split" then cry to SE for free stuff. Unacceptable.