Not an actual counter argument, and if you honestly think there are no differences between men and women, you're not trying to look at the situation w/o bias. (plus it wouldnt make any sense for there to be no differences, it would hurt us as a species if anything.)
Men and women are MORE alike, than they are different, but it only takes a small % difference, for a person to show favoritism in every day choices. (Most of these are as small as 5% difference, which is always debatable if there is error in the study, and then you have more obvious ones with differences of around 20%. But even 20% is a minor difference, yet enough to notice behavioral differences.)
Your comment of from venus and mars doesnt even give proper context to yoru stance other than for me to assume you think Im of the opinion the sexes are more different than alike. If so, I feel quite the opposite. If that's not your stance on the subject, then I'd need clarification.
This also isnt actually a counter argument if you understood what I was saying. (Maybe I didnt phrase it properly IDK, but I feel if I would be beating a dead horse, if I kept going on any more than I had.) While a SIGNIFICANT portion of women like the muscle men of Chipendales, a nearly equal number of women also do not.
Its no where near as comparable to how many men like wide hips for example.
I'm not saying they cant like it, but JUST doing it, to do it, isnt understanding why it does work for the few it does, and it wouldnt work for the majority of women. (By majority, I would say 51%)
Then again, the audience that plays MMOs might differ, on average, from other women.
It's neither unkind, nor kind. If you look at the glass as half empty, then yes, it can apear as unkind to both.
It's an evolutionary set of traits that helped us survive. (Also, its not really "dat ass". Everything both genders tend to like, tend to increase the overall likelyhood of survival of the species, even "dat ass", which are traits that increase the likelyhood the woman will survive. Which women would be pregnant with children for large portions of their lives, being both a bottle neck limiting the speed of reproduction, and also being worth the lives of 2 people, rather than 1. And if she needs protected, someone has to be the one to be the protector. So these traits were helpful in our continued survival.)
Honestly a very good point to bring up. Something I would like to get to know and understand more, though I dont think I'd be able to do so here on the forums.
EDIT: I actually recall one of the quotes from one of the studies that I think was the answer to this.
A woman said there were some guys she didnt find attractive, yet would do anything to be able to sleep with these guys.
It makes little sense with the way she phrased it, making it sound liek these men are attractive, yet "not" attractive.
So she obviously finds the traits of a guy attractive enough to want them as partners, yet still finds a certain aesthetic attractive as well.
Which is pretty normal.
So I can only assume your general aesthetic tastes are why you like the "eye candy" of males in a game, w/o actually finding them attractive. (Based on you saying you're not looking for a mate, unless you were literal, and then that seems a bit odd to have said ^^; )
But if you do find their visuals attractive, then that just went with what I said before, as to WHY those visuals are attractive. (We dont like visuals for no reason, there is a reason as to why we do.)
Lastly to everyone, to clarify, I do agree there should be Scantily clad males for those who do enjoy it, as there will always be those who like just about every combination we can think of, and there's still a large enough portion of people who do want it, or we wouldnt be seeing threads like this in just about every MMO.