Quote Originally Posted by Crysten View Post
...Best wishes for a speedy recovery to your girlfriend, but fishing for the sympathy vote from strangers on a generalized FFXIV board isn't necessarily the first thing that comes to my mind when something that serious has happened.

Think me heartless if you like, but I'd be at the hospital right now or actually seeking your support from the people that actually matter in your life.
I wonder...how do you know as much as what's the "first thing" comes to his mind and the matter that he hasn't done what you say in reality?
"Oh, the situation of his girl friend is so serious that he shouldn't have any time to spend on this forum"?-- Come, the network community is not a luxury today.
If imagination could be evidence on which you judge things, I'd also imagine: what if the thread stater wants to collect wishes and show it to his girl friend?