i am not mass pull tank

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Fast and steady can also win the dungeon.

Speedruns are the norm in DF because as long as people aren't distracted nothing should go wrong, but if you don't want to or can't do a speed run (like in your case for adhd) just mention it at the start of the party so people know the dungeon won't be run at the "normal" pace.

Speed runs are not the norm in DF, they are the norm for some players, not all.

Unfortunately, with how powerful everyone is in lv 50/60 dungeons, if you're not mass pulling you're purposely wasting time.

No, you're not purposely wasting time if you don't mass pull. Acting as if someone is, is harassment.

I continue to be mystified at how butthurt people get over 5 minutes of their time.
Admit it, you already wasted 5 minutes on your own accord several times today.

Agreed. It usually takes longer to span party chat with something sarcastic than it does to deal with another mob pull.

Honestly, a smooth run is fast whether you mass pull or not.