You know, it has little to do with the topic of this thread, but I wanna get it out of my system for now. In a way it does relate a little bit to the topic at hand. I wouldn't blame anyone for skipping this post which only contains some personal story that happened to me.
I ran Expert roulette on SCH the other night, and my choice of fairy for roulettes is always Eos. My reasoning is that you never know what kind of player you'll get in DF, and by properly utilizing Eos's skills, I can leave her to solo heal most trash pulls, even the really large ones, 90% of the time, which in turn allows me to use 95-100% of my in-battle GCDs for DPSing, perhaps only throwing one Adlo or Lustrate in the case of really large pulls. This also lets me use Energy Drain and Bane more, of course. I can still do this even with mediocre-at-best tanks. It takes a really, REALLY bad tank to constantly make me pop out of Cleric Stance in order to help them survive.
Another point in favor of Eos, imo, is that, since you never know what kind of players you'll get, using Fey Wind to give a 3% haste to a pair of potentially bad or mediocre DPS isn't worth popping out of Cleric Stance constantly in every pull. I am 100% sure that my Broils and BlizzIIs are more damage than what this haste effect can achieve most of the time.
Now that context is laid out...
The moment we entered the duty, the Ninja asked why I was using Eos. I said it was because of Whispering Dawn. Then he said Fey Wind was so much better and that I was a bad SCH for not using Fey Wind to buff the party. Consider also that the BLM, the other DPS, was under-geared, and kept using single-target spells even on big pulls. I decided that I didn't want to stop and explain things in detail because it would take too long and didn't want to make the other two wait for a pointless argument, so I just said Eos worked better for me.
The Ninja kept calling me a bad Scholar, and insisted that I knew nothing of the job, also claiming he was a Scholar main (which I honestly doubt, given this information...).
Now, to go back to the topic at hand, I just thought it was funny how different aspects of the same meta can contradict each other and cause cracks in the community. The BIG DEEPS meta is what has led me to maximize my own DPS output, and in turn led me to use Eos for casual content in which I'm the only healer. Yet, this same meta is what has made Selene the "standard fairy" because her buff moderately increases party DPS. I think it's ridiculous that such a small part of this could cause an argument, and I'm pretty sure this guy would have attempted to kick me out if they had been more extreme in their ideas.
In a way I think it can't be compared to an argument about a healer that stands there not doing much besides healing, but hey, food for thought: this kind of sour aftertaste once a dungeon run filled with pricks is over is why I don't give them shit. Differing playstyles in the end, eh?