Regarding the use of bans and suspensions.

[TheLastRaven]

While I can understand that it would be nice to be able to find out what you got banned for (if only to avoid said behaviour in the future!),
I don't really see any difference between SE's response and the one you posted as a "better" example. In the end, both just say "You showed bad behaviour and someone reported you for it".

I also think it's worrying that both your posts express the intent to not change your behaviour at all ._.
This is everyone's game and everyone has the right to play the way they want to. You can try to kick them and if the party agrees with you, that's fine.
If they don't, you are free to leave. Personally, I am also of the mindset of trying to no inconvenience the other players, but I do not enforce that view on everyone else
So no, you have no "right" to throw around insults just because you think someone isn't contributing enough.

Sure but is it ok for the party members to sit down and straight refuse to cooperate but when I say something I'm in the wrong right? You're asking to be told off and told that you're bringing the party down and just being dead weight if that is exactly what you're acting like. I shouldn't have to act like I'm here to repent just because I disagree and feel the general system for handling these problems is done badly. So far almost all I've seen in these forums is the same bad attitude of in game. It's deal with people acting like idiots because we just wanna get through this. I kick people if they are in the way of the rest of the party almost always it goes through. But if I have to kick a person almost every run because everyone wants to be a defensive entitled player that's on them and unlike the rest of the player base I don't just let it slide. If the DPS is literally doing nothing but auto attacking in a dungeon/raid where their teammates are counting on them am I really the bad guy for telling them to start doing their job? Do I not have the right to ever criticize anyone in this player base ever? At least unlike most people from what I've seen I wait for actual problems before saying things instead of just starting to yell at people.

I could handle myself better sometimes this is true. But as I said how do I know what I did wrong? If this is a game where everyone is to enjoy themselves I at no time want to be carrying people because they refuse to help. I do not want to deal with these parties where I have to almost be ready to kick people because of how they act. On top of that the 4 hour wait period between kicks is ridiculous.

Also the provided example of league is better because it may be similar. However due to being provided immediately after the instance where the offence happened you know what just took place and what was wrong. In this you receive a letter for a report that took place who knows how long ago was it for. Was it this morning? 3 days ago? 2 weeks? we don't know.