DPSing as a healer

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things such as controllers and ego boosting does not change the fact that the healer who heals only provides healing, and the healer that heals & DPS'es offers more than the former.

I've said it multiple times already. I'm not saying you, her, him, or who ever is wrong. I've actually said you're right on a few occasions.
I don't care what DPSing offers. I prefer a relaxed non-elitist style of play. Yet they still seem to think I'm trying to prove something. I don't have anything to prove, to you, her or anyone else. I was simply stating my style of play. So I'll say it again.

I don't care what DPSing does to improve or slow down a group. I prefer to play a relaxed non-forced style of play that allows me to enjoy the game as opposed to bull rushing through it like elitists. If you're bothered by people not DPSing as a healer. Simply form your own group and don't use the public system. If I was trying to force my style of play on to others then you'd have ground to stand on. As it stands, you currently do not.