Then please stop labeling everything as an elitist like you have been. You keep putting it in the wrong context which is why we keep having this boomerang discussion. I sincerely doubt that tank example considered him an elitist, despite being so oblivious. But the healer seemed content with him staying oblivious and that we should let it pass. The tank ended up being receptive to advice and that in general would make for a better community if people encourage and promote good play, rather than bad/obliviousness