Tried to do an expert the other day on WHM.
Even with my regular DPS with holy spam enemies were dying extremely slow. I noticed the BLM never used Enochian and I have no idea what the other DPS was doing.
We got to the first boss and it was dying the slowest I've EVER seen. We started dying to the Frog Song because the adds were not dying fast enough and I am frogged and cannot heal.
I still see the BLM (when he bothers to cast, sometimes he just stands there) not using Enochian at all and only using the 2.0 rotation. So I type to him quickly "why don't you use Enochian at all? It's okay if you aren't perfect at it but at least try to use it to help damage". I couldn't pinpoint what the other DPS was doing wrong so I didn't ask them anything at the time.
We manage to kill the frog boss after FIVE frog song rotations....I've only ever seen 2-3 before and the BLM finally responds to me and you know what he says?
"I don't have that"
"I don't have that"??????????????
....What?
So my natural response was "You're...a 60 BLM you must have it"
BLM: I don't
BRD: didn't you do your job quests?
BLM: to level 50 yes
Me: You..didn't do ANY of the 50-60 job quests?
BLM: no
/facepalm
I am pretty tolerant 99% of the time. Sometimes people just cross that hard to cross 1% where I can't tolerate anymore. I don't mind if people are learning etc; if they are just actively trying to play correctly its fine by me but I just couldn't deal with this level of ignorance at the time I was tired and I lost some faith here and just hurriedly apologized to the group that I was too tired to continue and ate the penalty to leave.
I don't mind helping people but what do you even say to help someone that is that oblivious? He had other jobs 55+ too and was decent ilevel on BLM so he's been playing all this time and missing 5 whole spells/abilities....I can't even...mind blown.