As irrelevant as it may seem to some, and I respect your opinion on this as much as I respect my own. You ARE taking more damage for this dps increase, so it's not black and white. Sure it may not be a big deal to you or your healer, I cannot stand the value this game has created for tanking community, that your dps parse is more important than the damage you mitigated, as a TANK.

You're right, and I understand the meta. Just throwing my opinion out there, that's all. Also you need to calm down.