Female Sundrop Dance

[Ashkendor]

Seems like the fair solution would be to make both versions of the dance available and let the player pick which to use. ...my character looks completely wrong using the female version and would look perfectly right using the male version.

Gender disparities like these don't seem to be high on SE's list of priorities. For example, your hairstyle is decidedly gender neutral but males don't have it as an option. Don't worry, female characters are still light years ahead overall with all their exclusive glamours. You get one derpy dance. We get a metric butt-ton of female + unisex glamour options and only a handful of male only ones.