Quote Originally Posted by Malicewolf View Post
AND if I don't grab them, guess what? They stay on the healer and the DPS that pulled them. I'll take it the first time and I'll ask them not to purposefully pull for me...
...I'll forgive a mistake. I will not condone uncooperative play. If you pull mobs FOR me everytime, then I agree, you can tank it since you seem to eager to do so. Queue as a tank if you want to set the pace yourself.
My point is, as soon as you stop doing your job as a tank because of one asshat, it pretty much ruins the whole thing for the whole party. Like you said, mobs go for healers, or aoeing DPS, and it'll most likely just lead to a wipe and then everyone is having a bad time 'cause you can't progress at all. It just erupts into a bigger fight, because now there's two people having a confrontation. That's what I mean by doing your best and going the way of least harm, even if it's slightly inconvenient for you personally. I mean, given the difficulty of dungeons, you can probably duo anything with a competent healer. Don't have to go ruining it for the one behaving DPS, or even a bigger group of people if it's 8 man content, because of one rude person. If I'm are able to finish the duty despite the inconvenience, I'd just go for it.

Even if there's only one well-mannered person in a party off assholes, I'd probably suck it up and try to keep going just for them, especially if they're a DPS with longer queue times.

I mean, why do we have to ruin it for everyone because of our pride? Why do we have to be so hateful and purposefully engage in confrontations? A little patience goes a long way.