Materia Melds for NIN.

[Maero]

While Ninja is not my main i would add crit materia and the slots that you could not, add determination instead.
This site allows you to load up your character and you can slot in materia, truly helps in decision making
http://ffxiv.ariyala.com/

[Deathgiver]

Anyone willing to plug my gear in for me and tell me what I need? I have full crafted gear minus one ring which is the 230 primal ring. 210 esoteric weapon

You just need to go visit the website that Maero posted, it shows stat caps by gear pieces. You can even add in melds to see how your stats look at the end.

While Ninja is not my main i would add crit materia and the slots that you could not, add determination instead.
This site allows you to load up your character and you can slot in materia, truly helps in decision making
http://ffxiv.ariyala.com/

edit: Derp nvm, didn't notice your comment about the busted laptop......