Quote Originally Posted by Gameplayzero View Post
mostly on mobs. On hard hitting mobs I remind them and only some use them afterwards (most I've seen use them and forget). I even got yelled at for asking while trying to do Holy spam. He told me to heal better and proceeded to slow the run down by stopping and waiting awhile before each pull. Is there something i'm missing or? I've nonstop have been getting this on expert and lower level'd dungeons. I get that expert is a joke when it comes to damage, but if you aren't stance dancing then thats somewhat lazy.

they are going through whole dungeons not using them.
Been seeing it constantly by level 60 tanks on their leveling roulette while leveling MCH and AST recently. I remind them. I track their cooldowns and eventually build sound effects for when their different CDs would be available again and would be ideal to use. I'll tell them ahead of time as we run to the next pull how much dps I intend to do, and how I could do considerably more with no loss to their current or my future dps if they actually blow their CDs. If they get annoyed and leave, the MNK or DRG tend to be able to take very nearly about the same rate of damage while we proceed for a couple minutes without a tank. Otherwise, they actually start using mitigation to shut me up.

(I've gotten to the point where I can hold conversations without being late a single GCD, probably half due simply to dealing with bad tanks.)

The worst though is when you get those Warriors who like to open in Deliverance and can barely hold threat in single-target, and say that it's worth it for their dps, when they aren't Overpowering against 5 mobs, and I could otherwise be spamming Gravity...

Sorry.
/vent

tldr; you're perfectly in the right.