Is dpsing and a healer becoming the standard norm!

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Those kind of things make healer really difficult to play.

High end anything can become difficult to play for most people. Player awareness, mob/mechanic awareness. DMG mitigation. DPSing. Is a job all members of the party have.

You cast eye for an eye on tank. A good monk will pop fist of earth before big damage then switch back. Or mantra before big raid wide damage happens.

I know you're arguing against someone who claims they're easy, but the context of the OP is in casual content tho.