Yeah, most expect you to dps now, when it started to switch from its nice that you dps, to getting yelled at for not doing as much dps as you can all the time, I quit healing.
Healing was never fun, now its just expect to be blamed for everything. Someone dies healers fault, fail dps check healers fault, die in pvp healers fault, someone stole your sweetroll healers fault.

And of course it isn't helped by the oh so mature response of "If you do or say something I don't like, I will just let you die"
Very adult response btw.