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    dekal's Avatar
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    Alexes D'kal
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    Balmung
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    Paladin Lv 66
    Quote Originally Posted by Paladinleeds View Post
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    After reading your posts and other ppl replies, I see that you want to start from zero. I am guessing you won't friend your current friend. Do you feel guilty or ashame of your actions? As you said she doesn't talk to you anymore and is not interested to. Just accept the consequences of your actions. No one is going to point at you and damn you.

    Everybody make errors, heck I did a few not too long ago, but I was able fix it on time because I analyzed myself and reacted on time, but there were other times i was just too late. You will always make errors in this life (virtual and/or reality)
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    Nomfur Farredzasyn
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    Omega
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    White Mage Lv 100
    Quote Originally Posted by dekal View Post
    After reading your posts and other ppl replies, I see that you want to start from zero. I am guessing you won't friend your current friend. Do you feel guilty or ashame of your actions? As you said she doesn't talk to you anymore and is not interested to. Just accept the consequences of your actions. No one is going to point at you and damn you.

    Everybody make errors, heck I did a few not too long ago, but I was able fix it on time because I analyzed myself and reacted on time, but there were other times i was just too late. You will always make errors in this life (virtual and/or reality)
    Her response to me has been to leave all the Discord servers we had in common so I can't message her there, blacklist me in game, block me on Skype, everything. After she set her status busy I flipped out. Really hope I get banned from this game, Skype, and Discord tbh. Be force cut clean.
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    White Mage ~ Sage ~ Astrologian
    Quote Originally Posted by Spiroglyph View Post
    Boi if you got kicked for the same thing in over 20 duties I strongly suggest you think hard on whatever the hell it is you're doing

    As I'm sure you are well aware, it takes more than one person to be able to kick a player from a duty, so in all those instances there were at least two people agreeing they'd be better off without you tanking.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Paladinleeds View Post
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    So your EB partner was a real relationship not just a new friend doing a quest. It is natural to be all desperated ( I know ). It looks like she was your first relationship. I don't recommend you to disappear because of one person. Would you really move from your town/city cuz you broke up with someone?

    As the previous player. Take a break from the game to clear you mind. Let yourself go thru all the stages of breaking up without acting upon impulses. This is the time to reflect an your actions to become a better person or at least working on becoming a better person.
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    Last edited by dekal; 03-06-2016 at 04:33 AM.

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    Nomfur Farredzasyn
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    White Mage Lv 100
    Quote Originally Posted by Coratanni View Post
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    Meh, I've got other friends and stuff like that over on Odin. Unfortunately, this isn't the first time this has happened and I never seem to learn (despite friends trying to bash it into my head non-stop). Indeed, all I did was just alienate them. Some things never change I guess... Odin seems to be the ultimate EU raiding server so if I wanna raid I'm pretty much stuck there. Will probably be taking a break once my sub expires in about 30 days.

    Quote Originally Posted by dekal View Post
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    Not first relationship, nor was it even a relationship. Just a friend I had grown close to. And I mean very close to. Someone who trusted me, and I backstabbed them by treating them like trash. And moving away from my city because of someone, if I got desperate enough, yes.
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    White Mage ~ Sage ~ Astrologian
    Quote Originally Posted by Spiroglyph View Post
    Boi if you got kicked for the same thing in over 20 duties I strongly suggest you think hard on whatever the hell it is you're doing

    As I'm sure you are well aware, it takes more than one person to be able to kick a player from a duty, so in all those instances there were at least two people agreeing they'd be better off without you tanking.

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    Omega Mutewind
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    Dragoon Lv 80
    Quote Originally Posted by Paladinleeds View Post
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    Well if you backstabed them and treated them like a trash, then u got what u deserved, sorry but if someone who I trust backstab me then that person for me is dead.
    Anyways live your consequences and move on.
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  6. 03-06-2016 04:13 PM
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    Thread cleanup - getting very off-topic and disruptive

  7. 03-06-2016 06:13 PM