Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread!

[MeiUshu]

Well, bad news. My arrogance, selfishness, self-destructive attitude caused me to end the marriage in a whirlwind of drama (be advised that I was the only person causing drama). I'm probably gonna end up deleting my character to get rid of the stains now on it regarding the embrace emote and ceremony chocobo, if I don't find a static. I don't want to remarry though.

And no, do NOT give me sympathy. Do not give me pity. Do not think I'm the victim. I'm the perpetrator of all this plain and simple.

all I will say it this....LIVE with it rather then delete.

[Caffekon]

Well, bad news. My arrogance, selfishness, self-destructive attitude caused me to end the marriage in a whirlwind of drama (be advised that I was the only person causing drama). I'm probably gonna end up deleting my character to get rid of the stains now on it regarding the embrace emote and ceremony chocobo, if I don't find a static. I don't want to remarry though.

And no, do NOT give me sympathy. Do not give me pity. Do not think I'm the victim. I'm the perpetrator of all this plain and simple.

Well just block her, leave your guild and keep playing, it's just a game, deleting your character at this points would be a huge waste of time and money, don't you think?

[Bixillarla]

Well, bad news. My arrogance, selfishness, self-destructive attitude caused me to end the marriage in a whirlwind of drama (be advised that I was the only person causing drama). I'm probably gonna end up deleting my character to get rid of the stains now on it regarding the embrace emote and ceremony chocobo, if I don't find a static. I don't want to remarry though.

And no, do NOT give me sympathy. Do not give me pity. Do not think I'm the victim. I'm the perpetrator of all this plain and simple.

Everyone makes mistakes. Deleting your character is a bit overkill, all the time you invested in it, learn and move on.

[Kuzonoha]

Well, bad news. My arrogance, selfishness, self-destructive attitude caused me to end the marriage in a whirlwind of drama (be advised that I was the only person causing drama). I'm probably gonna end up deleting my character to get rid of the stains now on it regarding the embrace emote and ceremony chocobo, if I don't find a static. I don't want to remarry though.

And no, do NOT give me sympathy. Do not give me pity. Do not think I'm the victim. I'm the perpetrator of all this plain and simple.

I'm telling you now, deleting your character might make you feel better for a time, but ultimately you're STILL going to live with that despair because of your quick fix decision. You'll be keeping yourself in bondage instead of moving on to bigger and greater things.

Tldr; You need to think about what you're thinking.

[Torunya]

Ragnarok's people on this forum is a myth

I know right? No way Ragnarok players would be here. Pffft. >_>

[hellmach]

Server: Brynhildr
Willing to transfer? No.
Personal Interests: Video games, music, and travel.
Play schedule: Most days
What kind of gamer are you: Mid-Core and scrubby :P
Character Gender:female/ male IRL.
Character Race: Lalafell and proud
Preferred Race: All I need is a BIG BOOTY ROE! Jk any is fine but Lalafell/Femroes preferred.
Main class?: Ninja
Dislikes: Cheap people. People with no class.
Goals for the game: Raid and spam dank macros
Goals for the marriage union: I want a big, strong manroe to hold me tight Just kidding. Someone to hang out, run things with and wipe while we blame it on lag in party chat. I'd really like it if they're open to doing raids even if it's not savage level.

NOTE: I really want the mount so you must be interested in at least a Gold level marriage. I WILL NOT CHANGE RACE! I love my Lalafell and I'll just switch back to Lalafell anyways. If you want to chat I got kik a while back to communicate with my old static. Kik:OriannaLannister.

[Paladinleeds]

Well just block her, leave your guild and keep playing, it's just a game, deleting your character at this points would be a huge waste of time and money, don't you think?

I've already left the FC, the FC I'm in now is just me and my alt. Consider it my safe haven. Besides, she has no interest in talking to me anymore.

Everyone makes mistakes. Deleting your character is a bit overkill, all the time you invested in it, learn and move on.

Conversely, I could always try and reinvest the time in another character. Then again, having everything combat related 50, all the titles I got, etc. Will definitely take some time to get back.

[dekal]

snip

After reading your posts and other ppl replies, I see that you want to start from zero. I am guessing you won't friend your current friend. Do you feel guilty or ashame of your actions? As you said she doesn't talk to you anymore and is not interested to. Just accept the consequences of your actions. No one is going to point at you and damn you.

Everybody make errors, heck I did a few not too long ago, but I was able fix it on time because I analyzed myself and reacted on time, but there were other times i was just too late. You will always make errors in this life (virtual and/or reality)

[Paladinleeds]

After reading your posts and other ppl replies, I see that you want to start from zero. I am guessing you won't friend your current friend. Do you feel guilty or ashame of your actions? As you said she doesn't talk to you anymore and is not interested to. Just accept the consequences of your actions. No one is going to point at you and damn you.

Everybody make errors, heck I did a few not too long ago, but I was able fix it on time because I analyzed myself and reacted on time, but there were other times i was just too late. You will always make errors in this life (virtual and/or reality)

Her response to me has been to leave all the Discord servers we had in common so I can't message her there, blacklist me in game, block me on Skype, everything. After she set her status busy I flipped out. Really hope I get banned from this game, Skype, and Discord tbh. Be force cut clean.

[dekal]

snip

So your EB partner was a real relationship not just a new friend doing a quest. It is natural to be all desperated ( I know ). It looks like she was your first relationship. I don't recommend you to disappear because of one person. Would you really move from your town/city cuz you broke up with someone?

As the previous player. Take a break from the game to clear you mind. Let yourself go thru all the stages of breaking up without acting upon impulses. This is the time to reflect an your actions to become a better person or at least working on becoming a better person.