Yeah. I got that too. I just don't see how it's an argument. I mean, if you're tanking and not holding hate..... fix it. Don't try to deeps instead. For everyone that's not a DD adding dps adds to your functionality, but it doesn't give you functionality. Always be doing your thing first. Arguing that a tank should be in offensive stance despite loosing hate is like arguing that a whm should stay in cleric stance and spam holy despite the tanks dying. It's a great thing to do when the tank's aren't dying, but if they are.... stop.I'm fairly certain the argument is that one of the tanks should've attempted to get aggro back and once aggro was settled they could all go back to their business as usual.
At any rate, I don't think I've ever seen anyone make that argument about healing. Which is why I'm sort of baffled it would come up in regards to tanking. It just seems so self-evident that fulfilling basic responsibilities should come first....
Anyways, fair enough as far as everything else you said goes. And I do agree that you should be trying to make the most of your job, if only because that's more or less where the fun in this game comes from (imo, at least). And yes, you certainly can take what I said and allow it to snowball to absurdity if so inclined. In an ideal world, people are (and should be) doing the best job possible 100% of the time, and that certainly involves using different stances if you're a tank.
PS: I think what irritates me is that people take situations from serious instances, and apply that logic to everything in the game. This is how you (somehow....) end up with tanks in non-serious instances who genuinely think that it's more important to be pushing dps than doing their basic job. Pushing new content is one thing, and doing the void ark in a DF party is another thing. What works best in one isn't necessarily the best, and certainly isn't needed, in the other. I would rather have an all vitality i190 tank in the Void Ark that knows mechanics and never dies than a full-time offensive stance tank in 210 strength gear who isn't keeping hate, but is admirably managing to pull the damage of a weaker DD (or a tank that's bouncing around aoe doom stuff in WoD, or what have you) . Any day. Basic mechanics are basic, but they're much more important than a small dps increase in basic situations.