Heh, don't worry Isius. The Tank Balance topic is old to us as well, so there's no hard feelings for a rant here or there. It happens.
But that whole enmity thing. I feel like it's more important than some people think. We know for sure that out of the Tanks, Paladin needs its Tank Stance for enmity far more than the others do. Let's not get into anything about needing it for mitigation right meow :3
This, at least to me, makes a specific and potentially vitally important question pop up in my head. The current key to maximizing Main Tank DPS is, of course, treating the Tank Stance like cancer and avoiding its use at all costs. While Paladins would still lose in a "Tank Stance DPS onry" contest, the reason they're very far behind instead of kind of far behind is they need that Tank Stance enmity more, Ninjas notwithstanding.
So, the question: Is the practice of Tanking in DPS Stances something that the devs anticipated, expected, or intended? They have formally condoned Healer DPS as a thing groups can employ to help with undergeared clears, but I have yet to see/find a precise statement on Full Strength Tanks or DPS Stance Tanking. They've only spoken about melded accessories... as a reason that they're "recalculating Tank Damage". Hmm.
The reason this question is important is that the answer would change the angle at which we're looking at balance here. If the answer is that DPS Stance Tanking was not intended, then Paladin is the Tank producing the most correct amount of enmity and the ability of the others to hold monsters relatively easily without it is indicative of them producing more enmity than intended. If the answer is that DPS Stance Tanking is intended, then the views of many forum goers are correct and Paladin's lesser ability to slip into their DPS Stance is a genuine design deficiency. For what it's worth, my money is on "not intended". I feel like the deliberate clunkiness of the Stances on Paladin and Dark Knight is telling.
So, yeah. Perspective and all that. I wonder if there's a chance of Yoshi-P mentioning this stuff during the live letter on Christmas Eve Eve? Eh... probably not. Making sure us kitties can /doze properly is obviously more important!