Change DF Diadem. Seriously.

[Vivi_Bushido]

Do they have the right to gather? Sure they do. But it ruins the party for those who want to get gear.

I know what you're going to say. Use Party Finder or do it with your FC. Well, sure, but both of those have also failed not to mention since it IS in the DF and you COULD fix it, why not do it?

Sometimes I wonder if people even bother reading the PF comments or just really honestly dgaf, cause I can't tell you how many times I made parties and you have that one DPS who always still goes off and gathers anyway. In my PF party no less, even though I clearly stated no gathering, no completing objectives. Monster zerging only!

Hell, I've seen people gather in Hard Mode. Like seriously? Why would you be gathering in hard mode? I didn't provide you a tank from my FC just so you could go and gather. It's so frustrating... And if your doing it for the objectives, then for the love of God, speak up and say something! I'm tired of seeing that DPS ditch the group to gather and use the objectives as their crutch to do so. It's even worse when that gatherer is a healer or your tank.

I make PF parties to be my exact specifications and people still join as if they didn't bother reading the message at all. I'm talking especially about those who roll need on 150/180 in a party that has it labeled to be greed only. Please join the party finders only if you agree to abide by all of the rules. I don't care if you want ESOs. I made this PF for that exact reason. It's my party, not yours. So don't be pissed if I get upset that your gathering in my party cause I sat patiently in this PF waiting for 7 other people to agree to my terms.

Like, I had one guy leave 40mins early because I didn't want to complete the objectives in a party I created. And of course I won't want to do them if I'm capped. However, it turns out he was mostly there for the ESOs alone anyway cause he went on a rant about how shitty the 210 stuff was. Like save your arguments, cause I made this party because I don't mind playing this RNG game for gear. I only get frustrated when others have to make the grind worse by not agreeing to my terms in my party. If you don't like my terms, then please, go make your own party like I did.

Sigh... Is it really too much to ask for people to read and agree to everything in the PF comment before joining?