Thank you for the replies.
I do ask PC friends to help me for my main class but having to ask someone to stand there for hours while I mess around with cooldowns and such is a big favour.

If I could see my own dps I could also nitpick things that haven't worked right, combinations of cool downs and such. I have no idea why people have bruised egos about this, a self parser that no one else could see could only be a asset to improve players, right?

@Colourful : can you link me where they've recently mentioned it will be avaliable in 3.2? It's so sorely needed