Ahhh hahaha yeah ... these have been mentioned A LOT in the forums since release. As for the issue you have logging back in, usually, if you full blow kill the FFXIV .exe process, you can usually jump right back in. Usually being the key word here. I know it doesn't fix the issues with losing the chance to fix re-entering Behest or anything else similar to it but, at least you may not have to wait 5-10 minutes to get back in. Welcome back and just in time for the new patch coming SOON!