Why am I not surprise to see Nektulos here...

/facepalm

No one should be force to play in an "advance style" way they aren't comfortable with. I'll be the first at admit slow pulls drive me off the walls but I tough it out because either the tank or healer maybe new and I rather they have a good dungeon experience then to ruin all that by being a jerk. If the tank doesn't do big pulls or the healer is just there... healing every 10 secs (as in fully geared players), not gonna tell them to "speed it up" or "do some work," just not gonna give them a commendation.