Are healers lazy or do some really live by "I only heal"?

[Domoarigato]

I am fairly new and am noticing the toxicity of this community. It doesn't always boil down to a healer being lazy. Most if not all MMOs content is usually accomplished without people harping on a healer to dps. I have NEVER played an MMO where people got angry at a healer for not dpsing. Also part being a healer is some are lured to the aspect of being a groups healbot. Maybe I just haven't been playing the game long enough but I don't see many opportunities to outright dps. Could just be a Duty Finder thing (haven't done organized end game content yet) but tanks mass pull and don't hold aggro, dps don't avoid aoe's and so on. Furthermore the nastiness of the people in this game is a little alarming.

[ElanVelius]

I have NEVER played an MMO where people got angry at a healer for not dpsing.

You have now.

The problem isn't when healers have to heal full time to keep people alive. The problem is when the tank only needs healing once every 10-12 seconds or longer because they are 55+ ilvls above the content. Usually in DF I need maybe 2 actual heals per fight if I am shielded and hit with some HoTs first. People have run these same two dungeons dozens of times and just want it done with as soon as possible. Ironically, WHM damage spells are better burst than most classes save for DRG and a decent BLM (few and far between). So by not DPSing as a WHM and just sitting there waiting for me to take damage, or spamming cure I every GCD and doing 75% overheal, you're extending the time it takes to complete the dungeon, and all most people are thinking is "Just give me my eso's and get me out of here!"


Incidentally, in almost all MMOs I have played, past a certain gear level the healer is expected to start DPSing if the tank is not taking any sort of significant damage, because there's nothing else for them to do. Again, people want the run over with so they can do the things they enjoy doing in the game (RP, crafting, 15/month chat room) as opposed to the things they are made to feel they HAVE to do (Esos).

[Fevelle]

Why is this topic still going?

Want to DPS? DPS.
Don't feel confident? Don't DPS.
Are you lazy so you want only to heal? Put lower level equips before queueing and have fun.
Someone is being an *** on the chat? Let them kick you and queue again, healer queues are fast anyways.

People complain too much about healers, god!