Ahhhh, I had totally forgotten what it was called (yup, it has 2 hits on it), you saved my butt Niw, tyvm. There didn't seem to be any "names" with the various hair styles, so hard to say which one the Eternal Bond one was.

While we are on esthetics, when I created this character I wanted an older, bearded wise look, as befits a cloth wearing wielder of magic (although, I think in ffxiv, it's leather). Can't go old at all, AND I failed to find any of what I'd consider, suitable facial hair (stubble and hints of stubble look dumb to me). YET I see other characters having real beards and am wondering how did they do it.