Difficult... its not nice to skip adds if someone needs (and even asks) for the exp - but, as a tank myself (and you, as level 60 warrior should have a bit of understanding for that...) I would say: You are not supposed to pull as a Dps. Never. Serioursly - hoe much exp would you've got from those mobs? 10k? thats one or two fates and really not worth the trouble. The tank decided he didnt want to pull those adds, the rest of the party agreed and they probadly kicked you because of "harrasment". Call me an elitist but I consider this behavior a mild form of harrasment (and, if I'm not totally mistaken, SE does so aswell - if you act conterproductive to what the party agreed on, aka NOT pulling those mobs, it can be considered harrasment).

Both you and the tank acted very egositic - in this case you had to suck it up though... I dont know how you asked him to pull those mobs, I dont know if he was able to understand you (asking in english while tank can only speaking french/german?), I dont know if you've taken the time to take a look at the other partymembers (were they outleveld for the dungeon?), I dont know which dungeon it was - the only thing I know is that you went ahead to do your own thing...and that Dps is not supposed to pull