I'm sorry for your frustration, OP; it took me about three months to both get skilled enough to challenge Titan EX personally and find a group that could do the same.

The Extreme primals are not content meant to be cleared by everyone. They're a distinctive step up from the main story and 4-man content and a lot more demanding on players in general. The first three EX Primals all test different skillsets - Garuda EX tests your tanks and your DPS' ability to control the direction they're pointed in. Titan EX tests raw reaction time and pattern memorization. Ifrit EX will test your ability to coordinate and awareness of the positions of your allies.


While many players do consider Titan simple (And they're pretty accurate - the fight itself is mechanically very light), the fact is that he mandates a level of reaction and - more important - memorization that you almost certainly haven't encountered up to this point. Because of how punishing it is on mistakes, and the necessity of a certain minimum of damage dealers surviving, it's also very difficult to clear in Duty Finder, where you really can't count on anyone queued up to be able to hold their own. As a result, many players don't clear Titan EX.

The important thing to remember is that in no way is Titan Extreme mandatory, and he never will be.