Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread!

[Twilite]

Im also looking for the same thing ^^

For you, I have some advice that will carry you a long way should you follow it: Clearly it seems you have some esteem issues(I haven't been following this thread much lately, so). There are girls out there that love the idea of pulling a guy out of such a rut. They tend to stake their whole existence on it. The perk with this is, they will do anything for you if it means you'll feel better about yourself. Advice: DON'T EVER MAKE THEM FEEL LIKE THEY ARE NOT HELPING YOU. They will begin to doubt you and slowly drift apart. If they say positive things about you, believe them. If they don't want you doing something, don't do it. Above and beyond..listen to them. They will listen to ALL of your troubles, but that has be to kept in check*. They will treat you like a king, but you better be treating them like a queen in return. There are nice girls out there looking for a man to save, let them save you - *all your internal issues and whatnot must be controlled or I promise you, you will lose her. (I have to be repetitive)To put it in the best way I know possible if you don't understand any of that - they are looking to turn you around. You keep laying the wrong way despite their efforts, their confidence in you and their ability to help you will deteriorate.

I have nothing further to add to this topic.

Edit: typos everywhere..

I forgot to add, FEMALE FRIENDS are also the same way. Once again, you don't always need to be in a relationship to feel happy.

[Fiachra_Mitsuaki]

Im also looking for the same thing ^^

For you, I have some advice that will carry you a long way should you follow it: DON'T EVER MAKE THEM FEEL LIKE THEY ARE NOT HELPING YOU.

^ 100% this, some really good advice to heed.

When I first started dating, I used to love saying that I was looking for my Princess ^^;
a little quirk I used to make sure that when I found her, I'd do my utmost to fight for her & then keep fighting to KEEP HER.

Of course now the gender doesn't matter to me, guys can still be princess'. ;P

But my point is that whilst your partner can be amazing for your state of mind, you can't let any internal doubts stop you from achieving the happiness that you deserve by pushing them away, always let them know your feelings & when you feel weak, they can be there to keep you going. Relationships are between two people, effort's put in from both parties.

[Mhikail]

I forgot to add, FEMALE FRIENDS are also the same way. Once again, you don't always need to be in a relationship to feel happy.

The best advice is: How about be yourselves and go with the flow?
It's not even that serious. Friendships are the same way as relationships.
Takes time to build upon it. I think we're old enough to understand how things work people lol.
I'm not trying to be rude but I feel like we're in a 'help' circle. O-o
Stay calm, and make friends!...Or whatever you want lol.