Not to be the devil's advocate, but like everyone else says Get a Static, right?
This new loot system screws over those stragglers, more than a token per person after every run. People in Statics are not going to be helping the people who don't play on Tuesday anyways, There is no incentive to help those players after you get your token for the week, the point is a lot of us don't have the schedule to be in one. A majority of the players who are going to be using DF/PF are the ones who don't have much time to play, and can't get a static. So why should they have to run a floor over and over to get a token, when it could be gear or token per floor.
From the loot list I seen, each floor has three tokens, so that's your odds. You also need 1-4 tokens for gear and they are specific tokens mind you. Yes this loot system is so much better for the Stragglers.....
Also 80% of what you described in FFXI sounds more like personal issues with your Linkshell.