Is this common? It's getting annoying...

[queenevilfluffy]

I've had it happen in a higher level dungeon. In Sas HM.
Naturally I ask how much I can pull, pull what the healer can handle and go. All is going well up until the first boss, where in the middle of the fight the other dps DCs. No prob we make it through anyway. After the fight I try to kick the person who has DCed. Nope the ninja has grabbed the treasure {making it so I can't kick said person} then runs ahead to pull the next trash. I check their gear and lo and behold all dreadwyrm shit. The person thinks they are the and all be all of everything. When I ask them to wait so we can kick a person and get a new one, I get told to stop being a pansy/baby this is old content it doesn't matter we can keep going.
Fine if they wanna tank, then so be it. I let that person and the healer go ahead and wipe. Told them to let me tank. ANd guess what rinse and repeat through the whole damn dungeon. We did finally get a person and they were the only person to care about mechanics in the last fight. As the Dread Ninja focused only one the boss forcing the healer to do extra work since the arms weren't going down.
Honestly it's high level dps who I find give the most problems. They think they are the shit, and if you don't agree you are a butt hurt pansy/casual who shouldn't be playing an MMO Actually, it's just about any person who has dreadwyrm gear who is a jerk.