Quote Originally Posted by Purrfectstorm View Post
LOL

This reminds me of a roommate I had that was like: "I can't get a job because I don't have a car and I can't get a car because I don't have a job."
These kinds of Catch-22's aren't unique. So how do most people handle them? Well it's not by laying down and dying!
Successful people avoid victim-think as much as possible. "Woe is me," doesn't get you anywhere. The only thing that does is asking: "What can I do right now to improve this situation?
This isn't "victim-thinking". Awnsering the "what I can do to get better" isn't always easy, neither is actually doing it. Sometimes it's not always available. Do you know how many homeless military they are that can't get jobs? No one wants to lie around and do nothing, but sometimes their isn't always a right now. Failing after repeated attempts with no one to go for help leads people to disrepair. Anyone who couldn't find a party in FFXI will agree with me.