Bloodborne and xiv are completely different styles of play....it's like saying I don't like PvP because it doesn't incorporate COD-style first person shooter gameplay...

You don't enjoy learning mechanics or how to deal with them and therefore don't want to do coil. That's fine.

But you really can't turn around and say "I deserve to oneshot everything, wiping and learning how to do a fight isn't challenging" (Literally paraphrased from your OP) then say you want this game to be like Bloodborne. It just sounds like you fundamentally don't enjoy ffxiv combat. Which again, everyone's entitled to their own opinion.

If everything was reflex-based dodging in this game content would get pretty stale pretty damn fast. Players in xiv only have so many limited movement mechanics, fights would always be like Titan or the last boss of Stone Vigil HM.

World of Darkness is exactly the same as coil in the sense "learn how the mechanic works then learn how to deal with it" it just happens that the mechanics give you significantly more time and are just significantly easier to deal with compared to coil.