Yeah sorry, long post. That is what I want to do really, me and her used to be close playing games all the time while she was growing up etc she really had no friends except a handful but rarely went out so kind of makes it a bit harder I guess but she has done quite a bit for me as well otherwise I would be like "Hey I'm leaving, sorry but this isnt working." I guess it still is as simple as that just would honestly make me feel like complete crap but I guess there is no other way except to make it sound much more pleasant and more mannered still a pain.