Things that really "Grinds my gear"

[DarkmoonVael]

I... it's... this... what?

Its the jealousey you get as WHM when the DPS suddenly realises that not only is the WHM keeping everyone alive, but also dealing more damage than you are on a DPS class.

I hate going to detail.....
The Healer DPS is when a Healer is attacking his own enemy or too close to enemy to DPS while everyones health drains.

I've had 3 situations with bad healer who mostly DPS and only healed when we asked.

An entire 3 times you say! Oh no, its the end of the world. All healers must cease any kind of DPS immediately since OP had 3 healers who were dps'ing and let someones health get low....... Oh and notice how there were no deaths (judging by the fact OP does not mention anyone died at all), just the case that someones health got low in OP's opinion. Maybe, just maybe, these healers knew what they were doing, and the issue here is that you didnt have a clue what they were doing or even what end game healers are capable of?

I dislikes Healers dpsing around(even more those holy spammers!) >_>
Its really annoying!
Kills the fun being the real dps class totaly!
I didnt worked for my gears so a healer shows up and spamming holys and letting dps classes look stupid and useless!
Whenever I have a "healer" like that, I dont dodge Zoned atks at all to force me healing! >:'P

I hope a certain patch makes the skill "Cleric stance" in dungeons useless - locked. >_>

Gee i better stop playing my healing classes to the fullest of their ability then. Certainly better stop adding that DPS in turn 13 as SCH as well.

I notice your main is WHM apparently, are you just complaining about this because you can not do this yourself, therefor no one should be able to?

[Truefaith87]

Small qualm that grinds my gears, but easily, EASILY goes to the ironworks fending helm. IT'S A FRIGGIN CAN OPENER FOR THE TWELVES SAKES!

[AmewKitsune]

I'm half expecting someone to say "bards who play foes because it lowers your DPS by 50%" soon because it seems people here are the ones giving DF groups bad advice and providing all those horror stories on reddit.

but it's putting a dent in that 1k DPS per second yo

[Kiara1]

I hope a certain patch makes the skill "Cleric stance" in dungeons useless - locked. >_>

But but, then healer in dungons will be so boring!
I always try to dish out as much dps as possible while still keeping group alive, cause thats the only way I can find dungeons fun as a whm.
Sometimes I'm like "Okay I can probably do one more holy before heal" and i kill the tank, but that's the fun part. I like to live dangerously!
Just changing to cleric stance for two attacks and then back to heal is more fun than just heal heal heal, even if im risking wiping my party. Usually a "oops sorry that was my bad" is enough and no one is angry!

[SummonerSenah]

The tanks in my FC that have adopted the attitude of "they need me more than I need them."

[Kyarra]

When you are going through a dungeon and the tank rushes through mobs and pulls five groups, then the healer can't keep up and the group wipes. Kind of like WoW lol. I miss the days of groups taking their time (but not too slow) and enjoying the game instead of rushing to the next objective with no one talking at all.

[CUTS3R]

I miss the days of groups taking their time (but not too slow) and enjoying the game instead of rushing to the next objective with no one talking at all.

To be fair, when im running a dungeon through DF im there to either to get tomes or specific drops, not to make friends. Its unlikely we'll ever meet again.
I'll probably sound cold by saying this but when im running DF solo, im using those 3 other members. They're nothing but tools helping me to achieve whatever thing i queued DF for.
The faster we complete said dungeon, the sooner i can move on. Chatting does not help speeding it up.

Dont get me wrong, aside from DF im a friendly guy.
On topic:
- People in DF talking to me as if we were long time friends.
- To that extent people being overly joyful over nothing and/or and spam the chat with that hideous moogle macro )
- BLMs having a macro every time they throw a flare.
-SMNs and SCHs waiting for the WHM to be raising first.
- The last one is in my signature.

[Eye_Gore]

We re not, its unlikely we'll ever meet again

When people think like this.

[PArcher]

People who expect me to do nothing but tank in Primal farms. I don't care that I'm able to solo tank all the primals without issue (levi and ifrit the exceptions cause mechanics, and Ramuh but that's because no one wants to heal that) there's times I just want to dps!

People who tell me how to play my job, especially when I'm a war or Drg.

People who try to speed run with new/undeargeared people. Conversely, people who won't speed run when everyone is way overgeared for the dungeon.

Ignoring non-ignorable mechanics. Keep dpsing ifrit while the nails are up in ex noobs, I'm sure you can kill him before enrage this time...

[Red_Wolf]

I love that a healer is "lazy" when he doesn't DPS. But a DPS that doesn't CC and manage group buffs/debuffs is just fine. I love when tanks complain about having to use their own cooldown (sorry but I assumed you were going to stop pulling 20 MOBS ago on your super speed mission to annoy the hell out me).

Special thanks to the tank I met in DF last night. Good person. Made Amdapor Keep HM very easy the first time around.