Why is it that people think that because they know a few or "half" of their fc that have kids and play and "they" can find time, that everyone should have no problems? Remember the amount of people that you "think" you know with what you think are the same issues does not represent the majority with that issue. Everyone is different. I have 3 kids, they don't even live with me. Does that mean I should have more time because they don't live with me? Does it mean I shouldn't have more time because I'm working all the time to support them? You can never judge someone's life and living challenges based on someone else's life. Too many variables that you don't even know exist between the two. Just look at the fact that people are asking for it to be added to DF, those are the people SE will base it on, not the ones to whom it will not apply. If you don't wan't final coil in DF, then don't df it if its there. problem solved.