Only 1000 characters to respond (nooby restriction maybe) but I just wanted to add a bit of feedback.

I think a lot of players are taking two extremes. You have Seravi saying I need to do more and stop being lazy, and she is correct, but at the same time she's not understanding that I am a month into the game. I have had access to the Holy spell for all of a week or two. Not only that but I am playing dungeons with OTHER players who are just as inexperienced as myself. Sometimes it goes fine and I could have DPS'ed, but than I remember how 5 minutes ago my team all but myself wiped on one single bomb detonation and I think "Maybe I'll play it safe".

When I play the level 50 content right now, I do make full use of Cleric Stance. I am still getting used to using multiple ability bars, my gear is not end-game. In the Morbol beds I use Holy as long as Regen is keeping the tank from dying, against bosses I use Medica II and Regen so I can get my aeros and a few Stone II out.