The Unspoken Rudeness

[Kazumac]

I think my fav time this happened was I was in an Ifrit ex party way back in the day. 8 people joined, go to queue. Error message someone does not meet requirements. Everyone is on the job and ilvl appropriate. "So who doesn't have IEX unlocked?" Silence. We pass around lead and ask each person to queue up for IEX to see who doesn't have it unlocked. Each time same error. Finally on the 7th person, he takes his time queuing... And bam up comes TEX. With a "Can you help me do this?"

Seriously.... Not even the same duty as was advertised in PF.

[Mercutial]

Unbelievable. That's a PF story for the ages.

[Izsha]

You wanna know why these people join farm parties?

Because if they join/form a learning party, it'll take them more than 2 hours to get a tank, and he'll leave after the 3rd wipe saying "this is a waste of time, u fu***ng noobs"

Simple as that.
It'll all be fine once people realize nobody has an obligation to know T10 just cuz it's been out for a month.

So an inexperienced at (insert fight) person has trouble making a learning party so they should just be carried by 7 people in a farm party? Blunt answer: that's not the farm parties problem. If I want to farm t9 for weapons and 3 players join because they can't successfully do a learning party and make me wipe for 2 hours, to bad. They get the boot.

You don't show up to taco bell and demand a hamburger just because there's no McDonalds in your town.

just because you struggle doesn't give you the right to crap on other people's groups. I can sympathize with struggling to learn. Doesnt make it ok demanding other people teach you just because they are there. That's just spiting random people because your situation sucks. Not cool.

[Noxifer]

You wanna know why these people join farm parties?

Because if they join/form a learning party, it'll take them more than 2 hours to get a tank, and he'll leave after the 3rd wipe saying "this is a waste of time, u fu***ng noobs"

Simple as that.
It'll all be fine once people realize nobody has an obligation to know T10 just cuz it's been out for a month.

I agree with you to an extent, but... If you haven't downed the instance before, or at the very least seen the fight to the last phases, don't go for a farm party. At the very least have the decency to look at clear parties and send a tell to the PF lister explaining your situation. "Have seen it up to X%, but parties keep disbanding, can you give me at least one chance to see if it's me or just really bad luck with DF/PF?" For example. And if the PF party is ok with that, be grateful. If they're not, don't get upset with them.

(And no, I'm not an expert raider... Still haven't set foot in T6 -- cleared T5 just the week after the nerfs or something XD tough luck with finding people, basically -- but now that we finally have enough people we'll go at it a bit more regularly. But while I sympathize with the learning parties sittng open for hours not finding enough people, or finding them just as the first joiners go "crap, out of time, good luck guys", it doesn't mean I don't sympathize with those who put up PF listings and expect people to read and follow instructions before joining ^^; )

[Frozenbear]

You wanna know why these people join farm parties?

Because if they join/form a learning party, it'll take them more than 2 hours to get a tank, and he'll leave after the 3rd wipe saying "this is a waste of time, u fu***ng noobs"

Simple as that.
It'll all be fine once people realize nobody has an obligation to know T10 just cuz it's been out for a month.

deal with it, like everyone before you did. bad tank is bad tank, you will go through plenty of bad players in learning runs because that is where the detritus of the player base tend to clot. you shake it off and keep trying. just like everyone else did before you.
simple as that.
Not really sure what that last sentence had todo with the topic. over my head maybe.

[Talia_Hailwind]

Ok.

the solution is to find 7 other people you trust that are online with a common interest.

Good luck with that.

[Frozenbear]

Good luck with that.

I lold. had the same thought first time i read it.

[AlexionSkylark]

I'm not telling that me MYSELF join farm parties like this. I even created a LS in my server meant to be a meeting place for ppl with no static groups to hook up and do content. Just telling you I understand why it happens. If learning parties weren't so damn hard to make and bullied, people woudn't have any reason to crash farm parties (pun intended).

[Ageofwar]

I would like to offer a reverse point of view from the OP

I have finished T5 about a month or 2 ago and have started trying T6

don't have a static group and all the static groups on my sever run outside of what time i have available to be in an evening (8pm to 12am GMT).

I have watched the Mr Happy video to death on you tube.

I can't practice in a PF party as all parties what people that have cleared the turn
I can't practice in DF as people i'm grouped up with also want people that have cleared the turn with parties ending in either the healers or tanks ragequiting and DPS queues are about 30 mins+


forming my own party just takes too long and no one is interested in doing T6

yes i do know that I only need to clear T9

no i don't want the content to be nerf any further.

and watching the cut scene on you tube just doesn't cut it for me as i want to try the content for myself.

so how am i'm meant to get better at any of the turns if no one will help me (or anyone new to coil) to practice

[Izsha]

Again, difficulty finding learning parties does not make it ok to weigh down a farm party with inexperience. That problem has had a million threads of its own. If you want hamburgers but there's only taco bell in your town, you don't go stage a demonstration in front of taco bell. Find a way to lure a McDonalds to town. Targeting frustrations at the wrong people just makes everyone piss ed off and results in angry words and kicked players. The farm party is causing no offense to learning parties. They just wanna farm. Leave them be and take up issue with making a learning party somewhere else.

Having a hard time learning has nothing to do with farm parties. Stop taking it out on them like they owe you something. If you struggle finding a means to learn content visit one of those many threads where people describe how they surmounted that challenge instead of sneaking into farm parties and starting up drama when you can't pass mustard.